Dec 23, 2014 · The Cost of Blaming Parents We believe that a new therapeutic frame to respond to adult children’s anger at their parents may be more beneficial in the long run—to the adult child, the parent, and the grandchildren. it is natural to feel angry with the parent. But how do we move from anger, self-blame, and an insecure model of close. Narcissists and borderlines lack problem-solving skills. Due to their immature personality structure, they victim-play instead of taking responsibility. Blame and Rage: What Narcissists and Borderlines Call Problem-Solving. Kids will often blame others when an adult holds them accountable for their bad behavior. This is a natural.
Feb 23, 2016 · Anger: When Adults Act Like Children—and Why Without doubt, anger is the most powerful—and regressive—“cover-up.” Posted Feb 23, 2016. SYCHOANALYTIC writers tend to focus on identity—or, to be more precise, the lack of a stable identity—as the core of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). But in my experience, given what I know about identity (it’s all a fraud—a social illusion), the real core of BPD, and other personality problems with Borderline elements, is rage.
Nov 20, 2008 · I was told that addicts are very angry people underneath the blanket of self medicating. My question is this: Does it seem to others that have loved but i think the 'anger/rage/blame' is more than enough to have to go through with an addict. ~Limiya~ Complicated by the economy, death, war, job loss, and coupled with the lack of or poor. Blank, lack of emotion, not an once of empathy as they scream, pull, grab, blame, hurt you. The rage is NOTHING you will ever experience. The lack of emotion. The dead dark eyes. The aftermath of the silent treatment and them not giving a fuck about hurting your feelings. The harsh reality is that they feel that YOU caused this rage. YOU fucked up.